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2.直白型
打開門映人眼簾的就是山,也就是一開始就用高度凝練的語言把演講的基本目的和主題告訴朋友,引起他們想聽下文的欲望,接著在主體部分加以詳細說明和論述。這便是直白型,又叫開門見山型。
3.幽默型
幽默型即是以幽默或詼諧的語言及事例作開場白。這樣的開場可以使聽眾在演講者的幽默啟發下集中精力進入角色,接受演講。
4.引用型
演講的開場白也有直接引用他人話語的(大多是名人的富有哲理的名言),它為演講主旨作事前的鋪墊和烘托,概括了演講的主旨。
5.懸念型
創作文章需要設置懸念、演講也不例外,因為它能使你的聽眾產生極大的好奇心,并能在這個懸念的“指引”下很快進入“設下的圈套”。
你在演講中若要運用這種類型的開場白要注意兩方面的問題,一是不能用聽眾全都熟悉明白的那些普通淺顯的問題來設置懸念;二是在演講中設置了懸念要及時解開。否則,聽眾會對演講產生強烈的反感情緒。
6.強力型
運用夸張的手法或從不同的角度對你的演講內容或主題加以渲染,從而引起聽眾的高度重視。但要注意的是,這種開場白不能毫無科學依據地無限度地一味夸大,以免造成故弄玄虛,駭人聽聞的演講負效應。
7.抒情型
這種開場白主要惜助詩歌。散文等抒情文學的形式,通過華麗的辭藻和洶涌澎湃的激情,感染聽眾,把聽眾帶入詩一般的境界。多數參加演講比賽的朋友都喜歡運用這種類型的開場白。
8.閑聊型
這種開場白就是先與聽眾以對話的口吻談一些與主題無關的話題,然后逐步導人演講,這是能與在座聽眾建立起友好融洽關系的上好方法。這種開場白往往被知名人士、權威人士使用。這類開場白卻不適合演講比賽,也不適合于青年演講,因為它體現的畢竟是演講者的不同身份。
9.自嘲型
提綱式開場白:
演講開始前,可以先把自己要講的問題扼要地介紹一下,使聽眾有個整體的認識,然后順藤摸瓜,脈絡清楚,一氣呵成。
向聽眾提問式開場白:
在演講開頭向聽眾提幾個問題,讓聽眾與你進入一個共同的思維空間進行思考。如果演講人的問題提得好,聽眾自然會格外留神,等待富有見解的答案。
即興發揮式的開場白:
演講者可根據會場氣氛擬一段即興開頭,這可以把演講者與聽眾一開始就緊緊地聯系起來,使聽眾在感情上產生哄鳴。
引起聽眾好奇式的開場白:
即把一些與演講內容有關的罕見的問題先提出來,使聽眾產生一種非聽下去不可的興趣。如果有一個與演講內容有關的有趣的故事,也可用它作為開頭。
作為一個成功的演講者,除了精心預備他的演講內容外,還要注意他的儀態。文章開頭最難寫,同樣道理,作演講開場白最不易把握,要想三言兩語抓住聽
眾的心,并非易事。如果在演講的開始聽眾對你的話就不感興趣,注意力一旦被分
散了,那后面再精彩的言論也將黯然失色。因此只有匠心獨運的開場白,以其新穎
、奇趣、敏慧之美,才能給聽眾留下深刻印象,才能立即控制場上氣氛,在瞬間里
集中聽眾注意力,從而為接下來的演講內容順利地搭梯架橋。
一、奇論妙語石破天驚聽眾對平庸普通的論調都不屑一顧,置若罔聞;倘
若發人未見,用別人意想不到的見解引出話題,造成“此言一出,舉座皆驚”的藝
術效果,會立即震撼聽眾,使他們急不可耐地聽下去,這樣就能達到吸引聽眾的目
的。
我記起了畢業歡送會上班主任給我們的致詞。他一開口就讓我們疑竇叢生——
“我原來想祝福大家一帆風順,但仔細一想,這樣說不恰當。”這句話把我們弄得
丈二和尚摸不著頭腦,大家屏聲靜氣地聽下去——“說人生一帆風順就如同祝某人
萬壽無疆一樣,是一個美麗而又空洞的謊言。人生漫漫,必然會遇到許多艱難困苦
,比如……”最后得出結論:“一帆風不順的人生才是真實的人生,在逆風險浪中
拼搏的人生才是最輝煌的人生。祝大家奮力拼搏,在坎坷的征程中,用堅實有力的
步伐走向美好的未來!”十多年過去了,班主任的話語猶在耳邊,給我留下了永難
磨滅的印象。“一帆風順”是常見的吉祥祝語,而老師偏偏反彈琵琶,從另一角度
悟出了人生哲理。第一句話無異于平地驚雷,又宛若異峰突起,怎能不震撼人心?
需要注意的是,運用這種方式應掌握分寸,弄不好會變為嘩眾取寵,故作聳人
之語。應結合聽眾心理、理解層次出奇制勝。再有,不能為了追求怪異而大發謬論
、怪論,也不能生硬牽扯,胡亂升華。否則,極易引起聽眾的反感和厭倦。須知,
無論多么新鮮的認識始終是建立在正確的主旨之上的.
二、自嘲開路幽默搭橋自嘲就是“自我開炮”,用在開場白里,目的是用
詼諧的語言巧妙地自我介紹,這樣會使聽眾倍感親切,無形中縮短了與聽眾間的距
離。在第四次作代會上,蕭軍應邀上臺,第一句話就是:“我叫蕭軍,是一個出土
文物。”這句話包含了多少復雜感情:有辛酸,有無奈,有自豪,有幸福。而以自
嘲之語表達,形式異常簡潔,內蘊尤其豐富!在一次演講時這樣開頭:“我今
天不是來向諸君作報告的,我是來‘胡說’的,因為我姓胡。”話音剛落,聽眾大
笑。這個開場白既巧妙地介紹了自己,又體現了演講者謙遜的修養,而且活躍了場
上氣氛,溝通了演講者與聽眾的心理,一石三鳥,堪稱一絕。
1990年中央電視臺邀請臺灣影視藝術家凌峰先生參加春節聯歡晚會。當時,
許多觀眾對他還很陌生,可是他說完那妙不可言的開場白后,一下子被觀眾認同并
受到了熱烈歡迎。他說:“在下凌峰,我和文章不同,雖然我們都獲得過‘金鐘獎
’和最佳男歌星稱號,但我以長得難看而出名……一般來說,女觀眾對我的印象不
太好,她們認為我是人比黃花瘦,臉比煤炭黑。”這一番話嬉而不謔,妙趣橫生,
觀眾捧腹大笑。這段開場白給人們留下了非常坦誠、風趣幽默的良好印象。不久,
在“金話筒之夜”文藝晚會上,只見他滿臉含笑,對觀眾說:“很高興又見到了你
們,很不幸又見到了我。”觀眾報以熱烈的掌聲。至此,凌峰的名字就傳遍了祖國
大地。
三、即景生題巧妙過渡一上臺就開始正正經經地演講,會給人生硬突兀的
感覺,讓聽眾難以接受。不妨以眼前人、事、景為話題,引申開去,把聽眾不知不
覺地引入演講之中。可以談會場布置,談當時天氣,談此時心情,談某個與會者形
象……例如,你可以說:“我剛才發現在座的一位同志非常面熟,好像我的一位朋
友。走近一看,又不是。但我想這沒關系,我們在此已經相識,今后不就可以稱為
朋友了嗎?我今天要講的,就是作為大家的一個朋友的一點兒個人想法。”在教師
節慶祝大會上,如果天氣陰沉沉的,你可以這樣開頭:“今天天氣不太好,陰沉昏
暗,但我們卻在這里看到了一片光明。”接著轉入正題,謳歌教師的偉大靈魂和奉
獻精神,他們燃燒了自己,照亮了別人和人類的未來
1863年,美國葛底斯堡國家烈士公墓峻工。落成典禮那天,國務卿埃弗雷特
站在主席臺上,只見人群、麥田、牧嘗果園、連綿的丘陵和高遠的山峰歷歷在目
,他心潮起伏,感慨萬千,立即改變了原先想好的開頭,從此情此景談起:
站在明凈的長天之下,從這片經過人們終年耕耘而今已安靜憩息的遼闊田野放
眼望去,那雄偉的阿勒格尼山隱隱約約地聳立在我們的前方,兄弟們的墳墓就在我
們腳下,我真不敢用我這微不足道的聲音打破上帝和大自然所安排的這意味無窮的
平靜。但是我必須完成你們交給我的責任,我祈求你們,祈求你們的寬容和同情…
…
這段開場白語言優美,節奏舒緩,感情深沉,人、景、物、情是那么完美而又
自然地融合在一起。據記載,當埃弗雷特剛剛講完這段話時,不少聽眾已淚水盈眶
。
即景生題不是故意繞圈子,不能離題萬里、漫無邊際地東拉西扯。否則會沖淡
主題,也使聽眾感到倦怠和不耐煩。演講者必須心中有數,還應注意點染的內容必
須與主題互相輝映,渾然一體。
一、 問句開場白
假如你可以總是把客戶的利益與自己的利益相結合,問問題將特別有用,顧客是向你購買想法、觀念、物品、服務或產品的人。當你問問題時將帶領你的潛在客戶為他的最佳利益做出選擇。
曾有一名某圖書公司的銷售人員總是從容不迫、平心靜氣地以提出問題的方式來接近顧客。
“如果我送給您一套有關個人效率的書籍,您打開書發現內容十分有趣,您會讀一讀嗎?”
“如果您讀了之后非常喜歡這套書,您會買下嗎?”
“如果您沒有發現其中的樂趣,您把書重新塞進這個包里給我寄回,行嗎?”
這位銷售員的開場白簡單明了,使客戶幾乎找不出說“不”的理由。后來這三個問題被該公司的全體銷售員所采用,成為標準的接近顧客的方式。
二、建立期待心理開場白
這是一種非常有效的開場白,會激起顧客的好奇與興趣,并且會抓住準客戶的全部注意力。你可以這樣說:
“你一定會喜歡我帶來給你看的東西!” “我帶來給你看的東西是一套革命性的作業方法!”
“我們公司發展了一套能在三十天之內降低你一半電腦成本的系統!”
不管你用哪一句,都會激起對方不自覺的反應:“那就是我要的東西”或是“我等不及了!”假如對方的業務責任涵蓋了對你產品或服務的決定權,他就會熱烈地想對你賣的東西多了解一些。
好的開場白應該會引發客戶的第二個問題,當你花了30秒的時間說完你的開場白以后,最佳的結果是讓客戶問你的東西是什么?每當客戶問你是干什么的時候,就表示客戶已經對你的產品產生了興趣。如果沒有讓客戶對你的產品或服務產生好奇或是興趣,那就表示你這30秒的開場白是無效的,你應該趕快設計另外一個更好的開場白來替代。
三、假設開場白
假設問句開場白指的是將產品最終能帶給客戶的利益及好處,轉換成一種問句的方式來詢問客戶,借此讓客戶在你一開始進行產品介紹時,就能產生好奇心及期待感。
舉例來說,假設你的產品最終能帶給客戶的利益點是可以節省他們的某些成本開支和增加他們的某些利潤,那么在一開始接觸客戶時,我們可以直接問:
“先生/小姐,如果我有一種方法能夠幫助您每月提高1000元的利潤或節省1000元的開支,請問您會有興趣抽出10分鐘的時間來了解嗎?”
使用此種問句方式,讓客戶給你一個機會,開始介紹你的產品。而當你介紹完你的產品之后,只要你能夠證明你的產品或服務能夠達到當初所承諾的效果,那么這個客戶就不會說“沒有興趣”。或者你可以問:
“假設我有一種方法可以幫助你們公司提高20%——30%的業績,而且這一方法經過驗證之后真正有效,你愿意不愿意花幾百元錢來投資在這件事情上面呢?”
在這種情況下,如果客戶的回答是肯定的,那么接下來你所要做的產品介紹和說明,就是很簡單地去驗證你的產品和服務是否能幫助客戶提高他們的業績,那么自然而然地他們就能夠做出購買決定了。
找出在你的產品銷售過程中最常見的客戶抗拒點,可以使用假設問句法來詢問你的客戶。
例如你所銷售的是健康食品,而一般客戶可能最常見的抗拒點是懷疑產品的有效性,那么你可以一開始就問他:
“如果我能證明這一產品真的有效,您是不是會有興趣購買呢?”
使用這種假設問句法,讓客戶自己回答說:
“只要……,我就會買。”
讓客戶自己做出承諾。這樣之后,只要你能證明產品是有效的,客戶購買的意愿自然就會增加。任何一位顧客都不能被別人說服的,能夠說服他的只有他自己。
四、打消準客戶疑惑的開場白
日本銷售之神原一平對打消準客戶的疑惑,取得準客戶對自己的信任有一套獨特的方法:
“先生,您好!”
“你是誰啊?”
“我是明治保險公司的原一平,今天我到貴地,有兩件事專程來請教您這位附近最有名的老板。”
“附近最有名的老板?”
“是啊!根據我打聽的結果,大伙兒都說這個問題最好請教您。”
“喔!大伙兒都說是我啊!真不敢當,到底什么問題呢?”
“實不相瞞,是如何有效的規避稅收和風險的事。”
“站著不方便,請進來說話吧!”
“……”
突然地銷售,未免顯得有點唐突,而且很容易招致別人的反感,以至于拒絕。先拐彎抹角地恭維準客戶,打消準客戶的疑惑,取得準客戶的信賴感,銷售便成了順理成章的事了。
打消準客戶疑惑的方式有:
1、贊美、恭維準客戶;
2、利用顧客見證;
3、切中對方要害。
提出相關的問題,并善意地為準顧客解決問題,做準顧客的朋友,是打消準顧客懷疑的有效方法。因為朋友會跟朋友購買。
五、感激開場白
在初次見面的時候,你可以以感激作為開場白。
“××先生,很高興你能夠接見我。我知道你很忙,我也非常感謝你在百忙之中能夠給我幾分鐘。我會很簡要地說明。”
當你凡事都向人致謝的時候,你就會引起他們的自我肯定心態,并讓他們對你心生好感。不管準客戶為你做了些什么,你都要說聲“謝謝”,這樣會讓準客戶更喜歡你,更尊重你。
六、解決問題開場白
有位銷售人員去我朋友的辦公室銷售他公司的服務,他一進門就自我介紹:
“我叫××,我是××公司的銷售顧問,我可以肯定我的到來不是為你們添麻煩的,而是來與你們一起處理問題,幫你們賺錢的。”
然后問公司經理:“您對我們公司非常了解嗎?”
他是說:“您對我們公司非常了解嗎?”
他用這個簡單的問題,主導了銷售訪談,并獲得了準顧客的全部注意力,他繼續說:
“我們公司在這市場區域內是規模最大的。我們在本區的經營已有10年歷史,而在過去10年里,我們的員工人數由10人擴張至260人。我們占有35%的市場,其中大部都是客戶滿意之后再度惠顧的。”
“××先生,您有沒有看到××經理采用了我們的產品,公司營運狀況已大有起色?”
用這樣一個簡單的開場白,他已經為自己和他的公司,以及他的服務建立了從零到最大的信賴度。他已經回答了“它安全嗎?”“它可靠嗎?”這兩個問題。他打開了準顧客的心,并且降低了準顧客的抗拒,所以準顧客馬上就很興趣地想知道他的過去客戶得到哪些利益而顧客也會從他的服務中得到哪些好處。準顧客從開始的抗拒變成后來的開放與接受。
七、反問句開場白
當你在銷售時感覺對方傳來一股強大的抗拒心理時,你就可以用這種方法。準客戶可能過去曾經對一些強迫而又強勢的銷售人員留下惡劣的印象,所以當他覺得自己置身相同的狀況時,他就會感到壓力,對來者產生反感。
反問句的開場白可以這么說:
“××先生,在我開始以前,我要讓你了解,我不是來這里銷售任何產品的。在我們今天短短幾分鐘的會面里,我要做的只是問一些問題,來看看我們公司是否在哪些方面可以幫助你達成目標。”
假如你真的要給準客戶留下深刻印象,就應該在你們見面的時候,準備好一張你想和他討論的三到五個問題的議程表。給他一份這樣的議程表,并告訴他你想進一步了解的范圍。
問他這些問題是否可以問。如果他的回答是肯定的,你就可以用這些話作開場白:
總有一群背影無法忘懷,成為一個名族的記憶。
一、制造懸念
制造懸念可以讓你一開始就能引起聽眾的好奇心,深深地吸引住他們的注意力,這對你是十分有益的。人都有好奇的天性。在開場白中制造懸念,能激發聽眾的強烈興趣和好奇心,在適當的時候解開懸念,使聽眾的好奇心得到滿足,也使演講前后照應,渾然一體。創作文章需要設置懸念、演講也不例外,因為它能使你的聽眾產生極大的好奇心,并能在這個懸念的“指引”下很快進入“設下的圈套”。
二 、講述故事
在開頭講一個與你所講內容有密切聯系的故事從而引出你的演講主題。這個故事要求完整,要有細節和主要人物。演講稿的開頭通過故事跌宕起伏的情節,將聽眾引入一種忘我的境界,并將自己的思想觀點不動聲色地溶入到故事中。總之,你要注意的是故事型的開場白一定要摒棄復雜的情節和冗長的語言。
1962年,82歲高齡的麥克阿瑟回到母校——西點軍校。一草一木,令他眷戀不已,浮想聯翩,仿佛又回到了青春時光。在授勛儀式上,他即席發表演講,他這樣開的頭:
今天早上,我走出旅館的時候,看門人問道:“將軍,你上哪兒去?”一聽說我到西點時,他說:“那可是個好地方,您從前去過嗎?”
這個故事情節極為簡單,敘述也樸實無華,但飽含的感情卻是深沉的、豐富的。既說明了西點軍校在人們心中非同尋常的地位,從而喚起聽眾強烈的自豪感,也表達了麥克阿瑟深深的眷戀之情。接著,麥克阿瑟不露痕跡地過渡到“責任——榮譽——國家”這個主題上來,水到渠成,自然妥帖。
三、引用名言典故
演講的開場白也有直接引用他人話語的(大多是名人的富有哲理的名言),它為演講主旨作事前的鋪墊和烘托,概括了演講的主旨。演講開場白如果恰到好處地引用富有哲理的名人語錄,不失時機地拋出寓意深刻的典故,演講就會有聲勢有威力。
被引用的開場白,必須具備兩個條件:
第一,話語本身富有蘊意,具有高度的感染力和極強的說服力。
第二,引用的話語要出自名家、權威人士或聽眾熟知的人物,這就是一般所說的權威效應和親友效應,從而引起聽眾注意。
四、一鳴驚人
運用夸張的手法或從不同的角度對你的演講內容或主題加以渲染,從而引起聽眾的高度重視。如果你想迅速吸引你的聽眾,那么在演講開場白,你可以描繪一個異乎尋常的場面,或透露一個觸目驚心的數據,或栩栩如生地描述一個聳人聽聞的事情,造成“此言一出,舉座皆驚”的藝術效果,這樣,聽眾不僅會驀然凝神,而且還會側耳細聽,更多地尋求你的講話內容,探詢你演講的原因。
有個班主任在畢業歡送會上向學生致詞。他一開口就讓學生疑竇叢生——“我原來想祝福大家一帆風順,但仔細一想,這樣說不恰當。”這句話把大家弄得丈二和尚摸不著頭腦,大家屏聲靜氣地聽下去——“說人生一帆風順就如同祝某人萬壽無疆一樣,是一個美麗而又空洞的謊言。人生漫漫,必然會遇到許多艱難困苦,比如……”最后得出結論:“不一帆風順的人生才是真實的人生,在逆風險浪中拼搏的人生才是最輝煌的人生。祝大家奮力拼搏,在坎坷的征程中,用堅實有力的步伐走向美好的未來!”許多年過去了,該班主任的話語猶在許多耳邊,給學生留下了永難磨滅的印象。“一帆風順”是常見的吉祥祝語,而老師偏偏反彈琵琶,從另一角度悟出了人生哲理。第一句話無異于平地驚雷,又宛若異峰突起,怎能不震撼人心?
五、巧用修辭
尊敬的各位來賓、各位親朋好友,各位父老鄉親:大家上午好!
蒼天流淚,大地含悲,在一個令人心碎的日子里,有一位德高望重的老人家默默地離開了我們,離開了這個令他無限眷戀的人世間,他就是我們尊敬的~~老大人!今天我們樂隊懷著同樣沉痛的心情應邀前來參加他老人家的追悼活動,在此讓我謹代表樂隊的全體工作人員對~~老人家的仙逝表示沉痛的哀悼!同時也向他的親人們致以誠摯的慰問,并向前來悼念的各位來賓各位親友表示親切的問好!
月有陰晴圓缺,人有悲歡離合。人世間難免有生、有死、有分、有合,~~老人家雖然離開了我們,但是他的音容笑貌、他的高風亮節卻永遠的留在了我們的心中!他老人家的一生是光輝的一生,是勤勞的一生,樸實的一生,他把他的一生都無私的奉獻給了養育他的這片熱土,并在這片熱土上立下了不朽的豐碑!生如春花之絢爛,逝如秋葉之靜美,這正是他老人家一生的光輝寫照!
2、今天很高興,來了這么多朋友(親人),平常大家都挺忙的沒時間聚一聚,今天既然有機會了,咱就敞開了吃敞開了喝!來,我先干為敬!
3、(生日)各位親愛的朋友:晚上好!燭光輝映著我們的笑臉,歌聲蕩漾著我們的心潮。跟著金色的陽光,伴著優美的旋律,迎來了我xx歲的生日。朋友是我們站在窗前欣賞冬日飄零的雪花時手中捧著的一盞熱茶,朋友是我們走在夏日大雨滂沱中時手里撐著的一把雨傘;朋友是春日來臨時吹開我們心中冬的郁悶的那一絲春風,朋友是收獲季節里我們陶醉在秋日私語中的那杯美酒……來吧,朋友們!讓我們端起芬芳醉人的美酒,為我們的友誼,干杯!
4、(請同事)在一起工作了這么長時間,一直想找個機會聚聚,今天各位能給我面子、抽時間坐在這里、我很感謝,我先來敬大家一杯!
5、(遷新居)在孩子及家人的共同努力下,在嚴峻的房地產市場中,孩子們終于居有其屋,甚為歡喜,今有幸請得各位光臨寒舍,倉促中略備薄酒,邀請大家同飲此杯,同享歡慶時,也希望大家以后多多光臨寒舍。
6、(家長請老師)多謝××對孩子的關心、指導,這孩子平時沒少給您添麻煩吧,真實麻煩老師您了,以后有什么不是的地方還望多多教會,孩子年少不懂事。
7、我馬上就要離開去另外個城市工作(上學)了,不知道要什么時候才會回來,今天請大家就是吃個便飯,我不在的日子里面。大家多幫助、關系我的家人,感謝大家今天肯賞臉來吃飯,大家隨意隨意!
8、(請領導)很榮幸今天各位領導和同事能夠抽出時間在這里聚一下,為了感謝各位平時對我工作的支持和關照,來我們一起干了這一杯。
my childhood was one of a lot of hard work and not much money, but it was one of solid family affection, as represented by my parents. i was reared in a religious atmosphere in the baptist faith, and i have been a member of the antioch baptist church in tulsa, oklahoma, since 1983. it is a very warm part of my life at the present time.
for my undergraduate work, i went to oklahoma state university and graduated from there in 1977. i am attaching to this statement a copy of my resume for further details of my education.
i graduated from the university with academic honors and proceeded to the yale law school, where i received my jd degree in 1980. upon graduation from law school, i became a practicing lawyer with the washington, dc, firm of ward, hardraker, and ross.
in 1981, i was introduced to now judge thomas by a mutual friend. judge thomas told me that he was anticipating a political appointment, and he asked if i would be interested in working with him. he was, in fact, appointed as assistant secretary of education for civil rights. after he had taken that post, he asked if i would become his assistant, and i accepted that position.
in my early period there, i had two major projects. the first was an article i wrote for judge thomas' signature on the education of minority students. the second was the organization of a seminar on high-risk students which was abandoned because judge thomas transferred to the eeoc where he became the chairman of that office.
during this period at the department of education, my working relationship with judge thomas was positive. i had a good deal of responsibility and independence. i thought he respected my work and that he trusted my judgment. after approximately three months of working there, he asked me to go out socially with him.
what happened next and telling the world about it are the two most difficult things -- experiences of my life. it is only after a great deal of agonizing consideration and sleepless number -- a great number of sleepless nights that i am able to talk of these unpleasant matters to anyone but my close friends.
i declined the invitation to go out socially with him and explained to him that i thought it would jeopardize what at the time i considered to be a very good working relationship. i had a normal social life with other men outside of the office. i believed then, as now, that having a social relationship with a person who was supervising my work would be ill-advised. i was very uncomfortable with the idea and told him so.
i thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. however, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions. he pressed me to justify my reasons for saying no to him. these incidents took place in his office or mine. they were in the form of private conversations which would not have been overheard by anyone else.
my working relationship became even more strained when judge thomas began to use work situations to discuss sex. on these occasions, he would call me into his office for reports on education issues and projects, or he might suggest that, because of the time pressures of his schedule, we go to lunch to a government cafeteria. after a brief discussion of work, he would turn the conversation to a discussion of sexual matters.
his conversations were very vivid. he spoke about acts that he had seen in pornographic films involving such matters as women having sex with animals and films showing group sex or rape scenes. he talked about pornographic materials depicting individuals with large penises or large breasts involved in various sex acts. on several occasions, thomas told me graphically of his own sexual prowess.
because i was extremely uncomfortable talking about sex with him at all and particularly in such a graphic way, i told him that i did not want to talk about these subjects. i would also try to change the subject to education matters or to nonsexual personal matters such as his background or his beliefs. my efforts to change the subject were rarely successful.
throughout the period of these conversations, he also from time to time asked me for social engagements. my reaction to these conversations was to avoid them by eliminating opportunities for us to engage in extended conversations. this was difficult because at the time i was his only assistant at the office of education -- or of
fice for civil rights.
during the latter part of my time at the department of education, the social pressures and any conversation of his offensive behavior ended. i began both to believe and hope that our working relationship could be a proper, cordial, and professional one.
when judge thomas was made chair of the eeoc, i needed to face the question of whether to go with him. i was asked to do so, and i did. the work itself was interesting, and at that time it appeared that the sexual overtures which had so troubled me had ended. i also faced the realistic fact that i had no alternative job. while i might have gone back to private practice, perhaps in my old firm or at another, i was dedicated to civil rights work, and my first choice was to be in that field. moreover, the department of education itself was a dubious venture. president reagan was seeking to abolish the entire department.
for my first months at the eeoc, where i continued to be an assistant to judge thomas, there were no sexual conversations or overtures. however, during the fall and winter of 1982, these began again. the comments were random and ranged from pressing me about why i didn't go out with him to remarks about my personal appearance. i remember his saying that some day i would have to tell him the real reason that i wouldn't go out with him.
he began to show displeasure in his tone and voice and his demeanor and his continued pressure for an explanation. he commented on what i was wearing in terms of whether it made me more or less sexually attractive. the incidents occurred in his inner office at the eeoc.
one of the oddest episodes i remember was an occasion in which thomas was drinking a coke in his office. he got up from the table at which we were working, went over to his desk to get the coke, looked at the can and asked, "who has pubic hair on my coke?" on other occasions, he referred to the size of his own penis as being larger than normal, and he also spoke on some occasions of the pleasures he had given to women with oral sex.
at this point, late 1982, i began to feel severe stress on the job. i began to be concerned that clarence thomas might take out his anger with me by degrading me or not giving me important assignments. i also thought that he might find an excuse for dismissing me.
in january of 1983, i began looking for another job. i was handicapped because i feared that, if he found out, he might make it difficult for me to find other employment and i might be dismissed from the job i had. another factor that made my search more difficult was that there was a period -- this was during a period of a hiring freeze in the government. in february of 1983, i was hospitalized for five days on an emergency basis for acute stomach pain which i attributed to stress on the job.
once out of the hospital, i became more committed to find other employment and sought further to minimize my contact with thomas. this became easier when allison duncan (sp) became office director, because most of my work was then funneled through her and i had contact with clarence thomas mostly in staff meetings.
in the spring of 1983, an opportunity to teach at oral roberts university opened up. i participated in a seminar -- taught an afternoon session and seminar at oral roberts university. the dean of the university saw me teaching and inquired as to whether i would be interested in furthering -- pursuing a career in teaching, beginning at oral roberts university. i agreed to take the job in large part because of my desire to escape the pressures i felt at the eeoc due to judge thomas.
when i informed him that i was leaving in july, i recall that his response was that now i would no longer have an excuse for not going out with him. i told him that i still preferred not to do so. at some time after that meeting, he asked if he could take me to dinner at the end of the term. when i declined, he assured me that the dinner was a professional courtesy only and not a social invitation. i reluctantly agreed to accept that invitation, but only if it was at the every end of a working day.
on, as i recall, the last day of my employment at the eeoc in the summer of 1983, i did have dinner with clarence thomas. we went directly from work to a restaurant near the office. we talked about the work i had done, both at education and at the eeoc. he told me that he was pleased with all of it except for an article and speech that i had done for him while we were at the office for civil rights. finally, he made a comment that i will vividly remember. he said that if i ever told anyone of his behavior that it would ruin his career. this was not an apology, nor was it an explanation. that was his last remark about the possibility of our going out or reference to his behavior.
in july of 1983, i left washington, dc area and have had minimal contact
with judge clarence thomas since. i am of course aware from the press that some questions have been raised about conversations i had with judge clarence thomas after i left the eeoc. from 1983 until today, i have seen judge thomas only twice. on one occasion, i needed to get a reference from him, and on another he made a public appearance in tulsa.
on one occasion he called me at home and we had an inconsequential conversation. on one occasion he called me without reaching me, and i returned the call without reaching him, and nothing came of it. i have on at least three occasions, been asked to act as a conduit to him for others.
i knew his secretary, diane holt. we had worked together at both eeoc and education. there were occasions on which i spoke to her, and on some of these occasions undoubtedly i passed on some casual comment to then chairman thomas. there were a series of calls in the first three months of 1985, occasioned by a group in tulsa, which wished to have a civil rights conference. they wanted judge thomas to be the speaker and enlisted my assistance for this purpose.
i did call in january and february to no effect, and finally suggested to the person directly involved, susan cahal (ph) that she put the matter into her own hands and call directly. she did so in march of 1985. in connection with that march invitation, ms. cahal (ph) wanted conference materials for the seminar and some research was needed. i was asked to try to get the information and did attempted to do so.
there was another call about another possible conference in july of 1985. in august of 1987, i was in washington, dc and i did call diane holt. in the course of this conversation, she asked me how long i was going to be in town and i told her. it is recorded in the message as august 15. it was, in fact, august 20th. she told me about judge thomas's marriage and i did say congratulate him.
it is only after a great deal of agonizing consideration that i am able to talk of these unpleasant matters to anyone except my closest friends. as i've said before these last few days have been very trying and very hard for me and it hasn't just been the last few days this week. it has actually been over a month now that i have been under the strain of this issue.
telling the world is the most difficult experience of my life, but it is very close to having to live through the experience that occasion this meeting. i may have used poor judgment early on in my relationship with this issue. i was aware, however, that telling at any point in my career could adversely affect my future career. and i did not want early on to burn all the bridges to the eeoc.
乙:新年拉近了我們成長的距離
甲:新年染紅了我們快樂的生活
乙:新年讓我們截取下了四季的片段
甲:新年給了我們人生的禪想
乙:在這一刻,我們已經感受到了春的氣息
甲:今天,我們相聚在這里,享受緣分帶給我們的歡樂,享受這段美好時光
乙:今天,我們相聚在這里,一起用心來感受真情,用愛來融化冰雪
甲:今天,我們相聚在這里,敞開你的心扉,釋放你的激情
乙:今天,我們相聚在這里,這里將成為歡樂的海洋,讓快樂響徹云霄
甲:今天,我們歡聚一堂、載歌載舞
乙:今天,我們激情滿懷、心潮澎湃
甲:今天,我們送去我們的祝福
乙:帶著祝愿、帶著囑托
甲:埋藏已久的期盼,化做今日相逢的喜悅
乙:看,陽光燦爛,那是新年絢麗的色彩
甲:聽,金鐘朗朗,這是新年動人的旋律
合:在詩與畫流動的佳節里我欲邀同來一起慶賀快樂的節日.********2012年元旦聯歡會現在開始
回首過去我們熱情洋溢,展望未來我們斗志昂揚,讓我們在新的一年里張開騰飛的翅膀,向著更高的目標飛翔
結束語
甲:雖然我們無法阻攔時間的流逝,但是我們可以主宰自己的心情
乙:妍麗的鮮花祝你節日愉快;閃動的燭光祝你平安如意
甲:懷念萬千祝福在這充滿喜悅的佳節里,祝福串成一首詩、組成一曲旋律、開啟一片溫馨的心靈
乙:溫馨的氣息、恬靜的氛圍、舒心的休憩編織成您快活的生活
甲:愿你以微笑迎接青春的歲月和火一般的年華
乙:愿人世間夢幻般的鮮花與綠葉永遠陪伴你溫馨的回憶
甲:愿我的祝福如朵朵小花開放在溫馨的季節里為你點綴歡樂四溢的佳節
乙:今天的聯歡會更加體現出我們是一個充滿活力,面向未來的集體
甲:在這里,有默默耕耘的辛勤園丁,有孜孜以求的莘莘學子
乙:在這里,散發著油墨的清香,跳動著青春的脈搏
甲:在這里,有我們對生活的激情,更有我們對未來的渴望
合:因為,我們始終相信:明天會更好
乙:今天的聯歡會到此結束,再次祝大家新年快樂,萬事如意,心想事成
快樂的時光總是那么短暫,團聚的日子特別讓人感動,今天我們歡歌笑語,我們暢想未來,讓我們記住今天,讓我們期待明天。迎新春聯歡會到此結束,謝謝大家,再見!
趙:尊敬的各位來賓
譚:尊敬的各位領導
溫:親愛的同事們
瞿:親愛的朋友們
合:大家下午好!
趙:新的一年
譚:新的征程
溫:新的祝福
瞿:新的期待年會主持人開場白臺詞趙、譚:在這灑滿溫暖陽光的金色午后,我們相聚在在洋溢芬芳的金百合酒店 瞿:充滿激情和喜悅的金流明團隊,共同迎接金燦燦的龍年
趙:我是主持人趙寧,祝愿大家度過一個寧靜祥和的新年;
譚:我是主持人譚x,祝愿大家新年里鶯歌燕舞、快樂幸福;
溫:我是主持人溫x,祝愿大家見到我溫暖的春天就油然而生;
瞿:我是主持人瞿x,祝愿大家見到我冬日生香、活色生香
趙:2017的兔年,在成長和收獲的喜悅中蹦蹦跳跳的遠去了
譚:2012的龍年,在期待和奮進的激情中騰云駕霧而來
溫:回首過去,我們滿懷豪情
瞿:展望未來,我們重任在肩
趙:感謝各位領導同事的辛勤付出,更感謝各位供應商的鼎力支持,讓我們對未來信心百倍
譚:今天到達年會現場的有深圳市太森科技限公司、深圳市x電路科技有限公司、x訊電子、x電子(深圳)有限公司、x晶電有限公司、深圳市x電子有限公司 溫:深圳x制品有限公司
瞿:深圳x有限公司
趙:深圳x有限公司
譚:為了點燃一個金色的夢,讓我們共同歡迎新年的到來,讓我們共同祝愿大家在新的一年里
合:心想事成,萬事如意,龍年大吉
趙:今天,我們相約在這里,享受緣分帶給我們的歡樂,享受這段美好時光; 譚:今天,我們相聚在這里,一起用心來感受真情,用愛來迎接春天; 溫:今天,我們相聚在這里,敞開你的心扉,釋放你的激情;
瞿:今天,我們相聚在這里,這里將成為歡樂的海洋,讓快樂響徹云霄! 合:金流明光電20xx年年度大會正式開始!
2017年會主持詞開場白二
甲:新年的鐘聲即將敲響,時光的車輪又留下了一道深深的印痕。伴隨著冬日里溫暖的陽光滿懷著喜悅的心情,來到了20xx蛇年的門口。
乙:回首20xx年,有淚水,但更多的是歡笑,有些小分歧,但更多的是齊心協力,有付出,但更多的是收獲。
丙:成功伴著艱辛,喜悅伴著汗水。在忙忙碌碌的每一天中,我們不知不覺地迎來了嶄新的20xx的門口。
丁:20xx年,我們有夢想,卻從不忘記行動。我們有目標,所以總是在追逐。用激情成就夢想。
合:公司領導高瞻遠矚,公司員工開拓創新,公司業績蒸蒸日上,公司的前景更加輝煌。
甲:歌聲裊裊辭舊歲,舞姿翩翩賀新春
乙:新年拉近了我們成長的距離
丙:新年讓我們截取下了四季的片段
丁:新年給了我們人生的念想
甲:尊敬的領導們
乙:親愛的同事們
合:大家 晚上好!!
丙:流走的是歲月,不變的是情懷,讓我們一起見證個人與公司的發展
丁:品德與能力齊飛,創新共開拓一色,忘掉那些有的沒的,今晚,是快樂,是激情,是夢想,是展望,現在
合:20xx年XXXX公司年會正式開始
2017年會主持詞開場白三
尊敬的各位領導、親愛的各位來賓、各位朋友:
大家晚上好!
(女)今晚我們xx公司的全體同仁在這里歡聚一堂,喜慶昨日的輝煌業績,展望公司的美好未來!
(男)回首往昔,馬年對于我們每一個人來說都難以忘懷,她給予了我們希望、收獲,更重要的是給予了我們成長的經歷。
(女)展望未來,一年勝似一年景,金龍東升,迎來美好明天。我們堅信:在中國經濟持續高速發展的帶動下,公司的事業一定能蒸蒸日上,她的明天將更加美好。 (男)炮竹聲聲辭舊歲
(女)和風送暖迎新春
(男)愿新年的炮聲帶給我們吉祥如意
(女)愿新年的鐘聲帶給我們幸福平安
(男)我是主持人xx公司年會主持詞開場白(女)我是主持人xxx
(男)出席我們今天晚會的是公司的全體同仁,同時非常榮幸,我們也邀請了客戶和廠商的嘉賓:他們是:xx先生,xx先生,xx先生
(女)xx先生,xx先生,
(男)某某公司的發展和成功,是和你們的大力支持和幫助分不開的,讓我們以熱烈的掌聲對他們的到來表示隆重的歡迎和衷心的感謝,
(男)下面有請公司總經理先生上臺,讓我們以熱烈的掌聲歡迎xx先生(掌聲),有請xx先生為我們致新年賀詞(按需求修改)祝酒
(女)接下來有請公司領導xx總和各部門領導上臺為我們祝酒,有請各領導(準備酒杯等開始祝酒,主持人致祝酒詞,臺下一起舉杯)
(男)這杯酒有三個祝愿:一是祝......公司事業興旺發達,財源廣進; (女)第二個愿望是祝我們遠方的父母和親人身體健康,萬事如意;